You can reduce the frequency of intrusive thoughts by resting more, relaxing more, and addressing these thoughts at other times so they don't accumulate in your mind. This way you will have more free working memory which is basically attention. You shouldn't force your attention, you naturally pay attention to things that add value to you so you can finally grow. But if there are many things in your mind and you are used to accumulating them unfinished, then basically you are constantly in a hellish mental state. Spend your free time unwinding, relaxing, you will find new way of seeing things and your attention and memory will go up. You should trust me because this is basic logic.
Can you make a video on stopping procrastination? I am sure we all be grateful for it. With your knowledge and expertise the video will be insightful!
This is golden advice. Thanks for explaining it in such an easy to understand manner Jeevan.
Thanks Doctor ❤
6:22 you described meditation basically...
I found this really helpful, applying this will make a big difference in my life. Was so clearly explained and demonstrated. You have a great communication style, thank you
Great tips (although I wouldn't call them brutal). I didn't think of writing distracting thoughts down. I would add that, like muscles, the mind needs rest, so plan in downtime to allow your mind to wander freely.
Dang! I wasnt even able to finish the whole video without getting distracted. I didn't read the comments, but i sat and thought about some things and then replayed the video.
What about when you completely lose focus but with no stimuli? When you just sit there staring through whatever you were studying in complete silence both externally and internally.
Thanks doctor idk why but my mind or heart whtever it is feels right and thinks this can be done practically not a bunch of words that made confuse just the practical things again thank you
Beautifully explained
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Please also talk about the part of starting tasks, avoidance, internal discomforts. In this video, you've covered so much cool stuff in-depth about various stimuli and our responses. This made me wonder- what is the process that our brains/bodies go through when we have a task that we set out to do, and when the time comes, we become avoidant, quickly switch focus on something else or sit in this uncomfortable situation of knowing that we should do; yet, not willing to do that right away? I hope the question makes sense.
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I’m babysitting my 4 and 5 year old grand babies. I’ve tried watching this 3X…had to take a walk around the block, help them change into swimsuits and got them out to the backyard to play in the water, drew pictures and made them into Japanese lanterns…now, I’m out to the mood to watch it
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Many thanks dear doc
This is good!
How to grow your attention span: Find a looooooong book series or webnovel series (6+ books or a few hundred chapters of more than 1k words) Read that, and dont change the activity when you think about doing something else (unless it is time based, like going to your part time job or going to the kitchen to eat dinner)
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