I broke no contact five times before I finally admitted to myself: he's not coming back the way I need him to. The Closure Plan by Ella Scott helped me stop chasing closure from someone who never gave clarity.
It's actually easy to figure out, believe their actions, not their words & the answer is found within.
Chemistry is not enough. There has to be compatibility— shared values, morals, character traits, standards, boundaries, intentions, goals, etc.— for any partnership or relationship to succeed.
Chemistry is for people who didn’t have a close relationship with parents, siblings, etc. so when they “feel” it with a stranger they want it so bad.
This guy is wildly underrated! Every time he speaks, he drops GEMS!!💎
The right partner has a spiritual connection, everything else is ego and if it's a 'lust' connection....might as well bin the whole thing off ASAP!
Wow " Attention is not intention." So true that chemistry is wildly overrated. Every single word said in this short clip is amazing
God knew I needed this so he put in my suggestions. Amazing advice. I have officially moved tf on and crying over someone who only gave me attention, not intention.
"Same vision as you" this is always a key factor for me now!! ❤ Thanks Matt!!
People mistake attention for care/love.
You're RIGHT, but Chemistry feels sssoooo good!!🎉😂
How someone makes you feel and as easy as life feels is the right intentions. Someone who backs you up but also there to kindly guide you while your wrong or misinterpreted. Thats what im looking for
The most important thing I heard him say is "being consistent" ... The problem is at what point does someone recognize the consistency and trust that you are genuine with them... At a certain point, you need a leap of faith and trust
My god that facts this man divulges with such efficacy and precision
True, i had great chemistry with someone. It took me seven years to understand the guy is simply mediocre in genuine. 😅 what a lucky escape eventually despite the heartship 😊
My chemistry is peace when we are together, never mind others opinions..
Totally agree, we sometimes chase chemistry without knowing that it’s not enough and that’s it’s not taking us anywhere.. chemistry is nice but I think it can come with time with the right person right?
When you hit ir off immediately. Easy to talk with no awkwardness. That’s chemistry
everything can be consistent and still leading nowhere.
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