@Butterontoast11
I used to date a guy that did not really like me. At the time I thought had to do more because of this. He wanted all the perks of being with me but not make it official. I was trying my best to woo him. I made food for him when he was sick. I became sick from dating him I went to the emergency room and was 88 pounds!Lost hair from the stress had an entire face of acne. He of course cheated on me when I was in this state. He honestly never cared or apologized for what he did. But when he explained in detail what he did he stated now I want to be with you forever. I couldn’t stop laughing at that moment. After a while I got better and prettier and met a hotter guy that wasn’t broke. He was hot, 6’2, had money, masculine. I learned a valuable lesson never try too hard as a woman if you wanna be feminine, let things go. The universe will protect you from bad guys.
@CassieTranthesuperfitbabe
ALSO: if you are experiencing these issues when you are single, it could mean that you need to change your mindset about dating and men in general to heal. This is indicative of you giving toxicity and negativity about your past struggles and traumas too much power that your body FEELS the repercussions. It doesn't mean that finding a new relationship is the solution; it could merely exemplify that you need to treat yourself better so that YOU are the best lover you have (at least in the moment).
@redfullmoon
Girl, a dude is giving so many triggers right now and we're not even dating. I noticed I lost a lot of hair since I met him. He gave me so much stress! It's true! But ironically the toxic ex situationship I had, I was actually at one of my hottest phases lol. If you heal your parental trauma and attachment issues (which, surprise surprise, stem from parental upbringing) then you'll also heal your dating life.
@starlessstephtx
I dated a bigger guy in high school and got on birth control and also ate more because he did. Gained like 45 lbs on a 5'1 frame. Wasn't a good look! Dumped him when I went to college and dropped all that weight in the first semester!
@eeeasyyySunday
During my internship, i was under a nice lady, her desktop background was her family two kids the oldest looked 12, i thought that she was in her Early 30s, so one day she invites me to her sons graduation party turns out the desktop pic was 11yrs ago and she was 45, i swear to God she looked the same. when i asked what her secret was she said she married a rich man that takes care of her...she taught me so much with that sentence
@mclainhunter
FINALLY SOMEONE REALIZED THE SKIN THING. When it was the right person, my skin would be flawless, but if it's not the right person, my skin would be going crazy. I've never met anyone who has made that distinction too!! WILD
@str4wber1y
i wish in few weeks or days, I'll have healthy relationship with myself and others.
@lorenajules4651
Yes it is very true, men do stress women out, especially married men! We women look far better when we are single. It's like the stress destroys our femininity.
@Cocreatercoochconch1111
Come here LISTEN my eczema cleared up when I became single 😭
@dnugget924
Love the video! Every relationship where my boyfriend started to neglect me or not make me a priority, I glowed down hard. Every single time.
@apollospoem
i used to date some questionable people in my life in these years so i noticed how i was while i was with them, and one of the guys that hurt me the worst was the one that made my problem with food turn into a literal eating disorder! when we ended our relationship i obviously suffered a lot but as the time passed i started to feel actually better, and to realize how hotter i became after him! mostly because i loved and i still love myself more than i used to! so this video is saying the truth, i love your channel❤
@catleaxmas5416
i also want to mention something that correlates with this but in different angles. before i am with my current bf, I was thinner. After we got together I started to gained healthy weight because he only care about my health, so i don't starves myself anymore. but people are commenting that i look uglier just because i gained a little bit of weight and they just claimed that i am not happy or if he is toxic. i should tell you that this is the healthiest relationship i have. so take notes not only how your romantic partner treat you but also how the community around you treat you.
@dianavazquez4409
girlll I was at my peak when I started dating a loser (I was decieved). He leveled up from my energy, like you mentioned on the video "the girlfriend effect" while my entire life, health, confidence took a toll and I felt exhausted most of the time, trying too hard at everything. I broke up with him and I am making a comeback!!! Thanks for your videos <3 they have helped immensely during this time.
@setfreetm5821
This is sooo true..I think if the best glow up is securely understanding who we are and to deeply love ourselves.
@ZyravsZombies
If you are looking through the comments and still don't believe anything on the video, here is my personal record: 2 relantionships with scumbags that took around 8 years of my life - gained 40kg that led to insane health issues, had to remove my gall baddler in an emergency surgery, kidney stones and my mental health was non existent, having panic attacks every single day, sometimes multiple ones a day. Now I'm with a man that I don't have to carry on my back: healthy weight, back to being active slowly, panic attacks rarely (longest streak of 2 months), no need for prescribed tranquilizers just to function the minimum and I'm back to doing art, something I haven't done in almost 20 years. And to make it clear I started recovering by myself, which made me a happier and more interesting person, which led to meeting a real man to begin with. At the end of the day, we always come back to ourselves. Pretty sure when you drop the stinky garbage bag, life is much easier
@xazja
I agree 100 %, blocked my ex everywhere and all my skin problems are gone, ALL OF THEM, and I was thinking i need drugs to deal with it, crazy, just crazy
@Brownie-xv
These memes😂 I noticed my skin glowing and my teeth looking whiter when I blocked a toxic person. So worth it!
@lunamartiana5219
Energy hygene. So true !
@natural3362
When i was being controlled by people, i was numb. Couldn't communicate properly. I have a stomach problem. Suddenly when i was away, i could feel my emotions because my body knows I'm safe
@feariehollow