@ms.angieb.1597
Facts! I experienced it in a toxic relationship with an ex narc five years ago… verbal abuse eventually lead to physical abuse.
@Ann-e1s
The verbal abuse is the most damaging aspect of a narcissistic behaviour
@KeraSwaby
Experienced this. He told me he hated me and how he regretted meeting me. That was 2022. Fast forward to 2024 and now he is telling me I am a queen and that he wants to start a family with me. Miss me with the B.S. I know I am a queen and the best thing that ever happened to him. These ppl are sad.
@noneya84
Some of us do stand up for ourselves, but that just makes them even more abusive. It's like how dare you have courage. He came at me harder. That's how much evil runs through their veins. It becomes dangerous depending on how volatile they are. Thanks, Leon, for bringing this to our attention!
@Amm5489
I swear anything said in a heated arguement is instantly triggered in my mind because i refuse to go back down that path
@EButta71
This is so SPOT ON!
@hitherebro
when i would try to defend and stand up for myself it would get physical and he blamed me for abusing me. i felt so helpless.
@dirtySal777
My ex Narc verbally abused me too. I was so stupid and naive but what he didn’t know that my strong belief in God kept me strong.
@valerief1231
As a woman I can say I did the same thing, but I loved to verbally spar with people. I was verbally abused by my mother, and there’s a lot about her that makes no sense, so I will leave it at that, but I was the scapegoat. My younger brother loved to cause me to get whooped or grounded, and mom always sided with him, so to clarify, I was adopted as an infant, so was my older brother, then my mom miraculously got pregnant after suffering a few miscarriages and a still born, which lead to adoption, but she became pregnant when dad was in Vietnam… I think that put her in a defensive mode all the time, so even when I was hurt by my brother, who is almost 4 years younger, I was the one that caused it in my mothers eyes. I really never went after HER when I was upset, my step father (dad figured out a woman can’t have a 7 pound 2 month premature baby I guess, that was her story) was very strict, so we rarely even talked in the house. But by the time I graduated high school, I’d had it, and went down a toxic path of verbally machete-ing anyone that got in my way. But God healed me after my mom died at 52 years old, her selfish habits caught up with her. I realized I was no different than her, she manipulated everyone, I didn’t, I was worse, I’d eviscerate anyone that crossed me, it didn’t matter, man, woman, punk teenager, boss, coworker, customer service staff, whatever, I always felt justified!!! But as I said, God helped me see how angry, bitter, and resentful I had been. Then God brought a wonderful man into my life, he’s smart, hilarious, hard working, goal oriented, and peaceful. It physically hurts me when we have an occasional disagreement, and they generally only last a few seconds, to at worst, a few minutes. I have repented, and asked God to forgive me, I’ve apologized to Jesus for my disgusting behavior, and I have begged forgiveness to my sweet friend that I hurt, and God is still healing and mending that relationship. We CAN fix ourselves, the first step is accepting responsibility. Also, I strongly advise anyone that wants to change their behavior to look up the 12 Steps that AA uses to help alcoholics recover and reset their lives. The principles are exactly the same. Sorry this is so long, as a formerly toxic, damaged and bitter person I want to apologize to anyone that’s ever been gaslit, manipulated, made the fall guy, scapegoat, or even worse, the peace keeper. You don’t deserve it. Find your strength and make a plan to get yourself safe. God bless you.
@justoutherelyfin
This is soooo spot on😢
@AmazingA88877
I experienced this! I believe my ex was a narcissist, he was verbally abusive and controlling and eventually physically abusive. He got to a point where he was just angry and belittling all the time. I do believe his mother was a narcissist aswell and that’s where he learned from. She put him in an emotionally weird role stunting his emotional growth early.
@sammyrizzo1199
Yall don't give a shit regardless if we stand up for ourselves or not. Same things happens.
@AwesomeMe47
🎯💯
@dqueen1277
Your Titling is Absolutely Correct !!!
@deebrown1688
Hey king.imma glad you feeling better
@EugeneTilbrook-hr4xk
💯,000,000 Leon!🎯💯👍🏼
@ruthstirrat7677
My son said I ruined his childhood but I know I didnr...so sad
@janiececooper6758
Someone being abused by a narc can say those things too
@keretiachikowe3840
Naked truth for free Leon thanks for confirming this
@pamelaskaggs8739