@koikun
I avoid literally everyone because you just never know.
@YamelaineGarcia
For me it is the distant one but it makes sense because both my parents weren't always present. My dad would work until late (Doctor) and my mom was here in this country working. I was also raised thinking that a man should be composed and have self-control. And so, I end up with men that withdraw a lot and have anger issues.
@blackhagalaz
I guess for me its the emotionaly dependent type. When I grew up I was parentified, and basically the bff to my mother. I had to shoulder to much at a young age. So I got a Partner who now needs me equally. I get my affection and recognition from helping others. At least now thats a pattern I am aware of
@SlyfoxDan7
Ergo - Date who your knee-jerk response isn't telling you to date. Go for a nice person. You deserve it. 🙏👍🙌
@abwuds7208
Man. I’m not an English native. But I’m listening to content in English all day long and also working in English. And I don’t know why I can never understand these videos. The sentences are really strange to me and the tone voice doesn’t really match in my head. But thank you anyway for the content
@laraoneal7284
We must examine deeply our family of origin dynamics. 64 % of our entire population comes from as children adverse childhood experiences at the hands and minds of parents and/or a member of our family. If we do not define what the pathology is we will choose or be chosen by people with those toxic traits bc it is familiar thus we’re will replicate the toxicity we come from. Recognize these traits and get out within the shortest time possible and further educate yourself on who u “really “ are so that u can recognize others who are also toxic so u can avoid. Deception and abuse before u ever marry or move in.
@ladyofspa
Your attraction is your childhood trauma in human forms.Until revise ,reprogram, reparent ourselves will keep being attracted to our caregivers in different bodies our nervous system is masterful at knowing who won't meet our needs it draws you to what's familar. So do the work, or change who you date.❤❤❤
@dotthepenguin9348
Compulsion to suffering 🙃🙈😹✨ that’s my signal
@CreamyBeige
It’s not that easy when most people that you meet put on a dramatised version of themselves and often don’t reveal how boring and dull and anxiously avoidant they are until way too late into the relationship, and now you’ve developed feelings and you’re stuck with someone who pretended to be vibrant and interesting, but who is a human version of a stuffed dummy.
@GenuinelyCuriousandInterested
💯% true as usual. Attraction is so profoundly risky factoring in all my subconscious and underlying romantic assumptions and fantasies. Ask me how I know lol? Three cheers to choosing wisely!
@jJust_NO_
its me, well, used to be. The more aloof and prideful, the better i get attached and interested albeit inconspicuously. I tend to get lonely a lot and morose. But it all changed now. Presently i am more cheerful, warm, and curious. Brain fog is gone too
@CaptainSuspenders
Most people are nice because they have to be because they have nothing else going on. I know the difference. Kind, cool, talented people are usually in a relationship or married. One can often choose between a brilliant crazy and a nice dullard.
@astoics_Journey
his books are gold ❤
@itsmekraleb
Put this on every screen in the world please
@cremebrulee4759
So true.
@isidoramaggana9733
I always end up with mommy and daddy type of problems 😬
@HomelessMathTeacher
Oh heck I always liked the bad guys in the movies, think Ken dolls are boring, and couldn't stand to what I think of as a golfer with a crew cut. No. I need a hard rocker. And ti my way of thinking, those hard rockers ARE the real good guys. The clean LOOKING ones are masking the disease of false piousness.
@deuteronomy3162
Wrong!! I love and adore nice people and very rarely meet them. They are so fleeting like moring dew
@jon4843
Im too lonely for this
@Hope_is_Love