@moldyseulgi7167
SUMMARY: 1. Become friends with yourself first- 1:25 2. Show compassion- 2:29 3. Find your tribe- 3:55 4. Know there is no "perfect" friend- 5:10 I hope this helped:D Subtitles aren't matched so put your volume upš
@AislingMogus
I just want to be someoneās number one choice as a friend. I want to be someoneās best friend. Iāve never been chosen.
@mkdutta9428
Sometimes self love doesn't work, at times of deep suffering we just need that someone to be with us, listen to us
@gabrielisrafil7236
This video made me realize that I strive really hard for my relationships. I give all I can to my friends, partners, and family. This makes me expect more than most people can give, thus I feel isolated at times, and that severely worsens my depressive state. Starting from today, I will not struggle so much. Relationships are not what I want them to be. They are what they are.
@Macwolf-js1hy
Iām always the friend who gets forgotten about or left behind, but I donāt understand why I canāt find good friends Iām so loyal, kind considerate, and compassionate towards others sometimes even too much where I put my mental state at risk. Iām rlly good at finding out what being left out feels like and when it starts to happen or even before it happens, like especially when your in a friend group of three, why is it so hard to just include everyone.
@fluffylittlekaitlyn7998
As someone who is disabled and unfortunately canāt get out of the house a lot while everyone is out working or going to school, thanks š
@red-roses2103
The worst depresion is when you dont know why your depressed, you have the feeling you just feel alone in the crowed you feel like no one cares the worst thing about not knowing why your depressed is that you can't fix it your just stuck with it and when people ask you if your okay you cant say anything because you dont have a good reason to be feeling that way so you just have to say "im fine" or "im okay"
@ColinBurkeMusic
I donāt think there is someone for me. I feel completely cut off.
@Ana-qr8ew
i feel like a lot of people who watched this feel lonely all the time, and iām so sorry for them because they all deserve to feel loved and valued by others. i also feel lonely, but itās not like i felt it for my whole life. iām an aries and quite a strong personality i feel like, but i can just turn into the most introverted person ever and overthink everything. itās so hard because i feel like iām not the type of person people think of as lonely, i smile a lot when iām around people, so theyāll like me (i kinda hate that habit hahah) thatās what makes it harder for me, ppl think iāll be fine bc iām sweet and smartc and always put on a smile. yeah, that was my vent š i hope you all have a wonderful day ā¤ļøāš©¹
@_virat_18_kohli
At one point i was having so many friends and some where close ones to me, but now everyone is leaving me literally everyone is going from my life, and i feel like they all are leaving me because of my mistake, any kind of mistake i have made, or because i hurt them idk what's the reason behind leaving but at this point I'm feeling lonely and all i want is peace i want permanent sleep, and that's how i will be happy, atleast permanent sleep is better than living lonely and having no one hurts more, at one point those people with whom i was really happy they left me they started avoiding and current situation is I'm alone and i have no one š and this is what i deserve, i deserve not to be happy, i deserve to be sad and i deserve heartbreak nothing else
@amndssbarros
I've been feeling lonely pretty much my entire life. I like expressing my feelings, I like telling people how much I care about them, how much I like them. I like hugging people, kissing their cheeks, holding their hands, I like spending time with them doing whatever they feel like. I love expressing my love. However my family hates it, they don't want to be hugged and they think I'm stupid if I cry or laugh or express whatever I'm feeling, they also don't wanna listen to me. I never actually had friends, idk why, I always tried but it never worked. Last year I met a boy that I could be myself with but he lived 6/7hours aways from me, I think I may have screwed up because of the fear of not being enough. Anyway, I found the first person that made me feel good about being me and I lost him because of the distance and the difference of reality between us. The first time I felt not alone, I couldn't stay. One year after and that still hurts me, I feel so much pain inside my chest, I wanna love and I wanna be loved, I never had the opportunity to do that. I hug myself every single night and I ask God to hug me back bc I need affection and I have nothing. Anyway, I'm 20 years old and 2023 is going to be so hard, I'll try my best to study, work and take care of myself even if I'm going to be crying every single time I go to bed or take a shower. I'm feeling so lonely, I like myself, I'm proud of myself but I'm so lonely.
@angeladeguzman2281
Feeling lonely while surviving college is different kind of pain, especially when you feel like you don't have even one friend that cares about you genuinely, who checks up on you whenever you're quiet. I've never felt this lonely in my life. Got to the point that I questioned myself that maybe i'm the problem that nobody wants to be friends with me
@FalseWordz
I think I've really gotten used to being by myself I used to feel horrible when I was alone in the house most of the time, it almost felt physical I don't get that sensation much now, it's just a more of a thought of āwow I really don't have anyone to talk to about my problemsā and crying alone while searching stuff online to make myself feel better
@mariea82
Been lonely all my life. šÆ of the time
@klimble
i mustve watched this like a million times over the last 5 years, ive spent literally my whole teenage years with no friends, no boyfriend, no actual memories or anything
@RaghvendraSingh-du9bf
I am an extrovert type of person I can talk to anyone, make conversations and become friends, but I feel like it. They Donāt understand me. When my best friend doesnāt reply to me, it feels like she doesnāt care about me anymore, like I am valueless for her.
@jarebear95
I cannot put into words the depths of my loneliness. It's like a quiet sort of inner darkness.
@TN-vr6ws
I wish I can feel content with being by myself because I donāt have to rely on others to help me feel better anymore.
@deb_angana
I feel so lonely all the time, I am so isolated always, I feel like I have no one, and that I am a burden and I don't deserve love and care. I feel like when I need someone the most, they left me all alone willingly knowing about my mental health. I live on breadcrumbs of attention and I'm so desperate for connection at this point. I have so many thoughts on unaliving myself, but I don't have enough strength to do it
@Psych2go