First time I've ever donated. My Senior engineer has this ethos with everything he does. You are truly helping me crystallise this mindset by just voicing it out. Massive thanks! Believe it or not. You're an inspiration many
This is such a big thing. At the end of the day every single concept that A human understands can therefore be understood, and is never too hard to understand.
Good video and message I will never forget the moment when software engineering clicked for me. I'm self-taught. It was four months into the first job. As a software engineer, I felt I knew what I was doing for the first time. Before that moment, I thought: "Am I able to do this?" After that moment, to this day: "How long will it take for me to do this?" “You can’t learn everything, but you must convince yourself that you can learn anything…” - John Carmack.
I really appreicate your content
This is just the thing that I needed to hear. Thank you for making videos like this!
One of the books that had the most impact on my life is "Mindset" by Carol Dweck. She describes how the Growth Mindset that ThePrimagen exhibits in this video is the more successful approach over the Fixed Mindset in which people limit themselves, thinking "Nah, I don't have enough talent for this to succeed."
Finished my first project at my first full time job last Thursday. I'm more comfortable with frontend but was hired as a backend engineer cause I knew enough . The project was given to me at my 2nd week and tbh I was and still am overwhelmed. I have a lot of imposter syndrome, made a lot of small mistakes, and a bunch of hurdles. But even then, I knew I'll be able to do it somehow. Good thing I have good and understanding seniors to help me with how I should approach certain things. At my lowest point during that project where I'm questioning if I'll be even be able to pull this project off. I stumbled upon this vid and gave me the needed pep talk to continue. That experience really gave me the confidence and validation for myself that even if I'm not good atm, I'm competent enough right now that I will be. Thanks Prime for helping me through my self taught dev journey!
This is something I've thought about recently while teaching myself mathematical logic: the further I progress, the more difficult the proofs become, and sometimes it feels like I've hit a dead end. I think "this is way beyond me, I'm not gonna be able to proceed any further". And time after time, I manage to pull through! Sometimes it feels like trying to break a big rock with a small hammer, but with persistence, that rock will have to give!
Man this hits so close to home, and just at the right time, thank you Prime!
This is the right mentality to have! Amazingly put into words and examples. It's such an important way of approaching new things. Its also called the student's mindset FYI
Dude I'm 100% there with you. There's nothing I can't do... there are only things I haven't done yet.
I just recently found out about your channel and I love it. There are so many valuable things I have had confirmed from you. I am trying to have the same approach as you have in regards of not saying no to things I dont know. Those are just extra challenges and so far I have overcome most of them, now and then there are some that are not worth it but then I externalize with which I also had a lot of problems. Some of the problems were due to imposter syndrome, but some I think might be related to behavior related to ADHD for which I finally reached out to get diagnosis. How I wish I could find someone like you as a mentor, but even this channels serves the purpose, partially in that role.
After having a stress attack over a deadline catching up to me due to bad project management AND thinking I wouldn't be able to do it, this really helps me mentally.
These are my favourite videos of yours, dude. This and the last 'vim as your editor' video. The just fucking do it mentality. Being reminded there's no shortcuts and you have it in you if you just try. Appreciate you, man.
Ah man.. Prime, I never thought I'd feel like crying man. You have no idea how much you're helping me mentally right now. I just graduated 2 months ago, started my first real software engineering job where I'm more accountable for an actual project. There's a ton of pressure I've been feeling the past few weeks trying to deliver on time and being anxious if I actually deserve to be an engineer. It's tough running into more difficult problems compared to just working on fun side projects to get hired. I'm constantly feeling like I might get fired because some of the problems I run into are so overwhelming. Even worse when the requirement is seemingly easy yet it takes me a long time to figure out. Everything you said here just feels like a good pat in the back, man. Thank you!
Can relate. I've found the feeling "can do anything" years ago. We completed a 1300 km bicycle trip in less than 13 days iirk. The trip was fun and very hard. Now I understand how many dangers we avoided and I thank God for that. Starting from that, I try to be patient while solving problems. Often I forget and rush, feel bad, forget about the problem for the few days, return back, and solve it. Or, don't return to the problem at all. That's also fine. Patience and enjoying the process are a few parts of feeling good for me. As one book says, "the road is made by walking".
Same with doctoral thesis. Most people have a very conflicted relationship with their doctoral thesis. You know it inside out, every problem, every compromise that you had to do because the data were not exactly right, "if only I could have done this or that" or "if that they it hadn't been raining", etc. And then you see other people's thesis and they are so nice, so meaningful, so full of great data. But in reality they are exactly the same, you just do not know their work inside out as you know your own.
I'm the same way. It's not that one can't figure things out, it's just how long that journey is. I remember joining the Labs team in 2014 and there was no guarantee that the team would exist a year in so we had to quickly create business value as we grew so we could stick around. I also remember Social Mountain. 🙂
I used to have a kick ass mentality, there was nothing I couldn't do. Team Get Shit Done! Now my current job has broken me, every attempted step forward is met with a big F you, not today MF'er. Like constantly telling a child they are stupid, they start to believe it. I am now team Get Nothing Done. The best decision I can make right now is to walk away from a demoralizing, negative and unfulfilling job. Even the boss's dog hates me! (´;︵;`)
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