The amount of respect for personal space on both sides of this conversation is goals.
And remember men, if you no longer want to be treated as a breeding horse, you can adjust your boundary and say no to it! Boundaries are moveable. You just need to communicate it.
Consent is SO important. I was in a relationship with a man that assumed, and I woke up one night to things already happening. Didn't realize until years later that it was not okay.
Props to him for not only asking about her boundaries but also just accepting them without question.
Communication, politely stating boundaries, and boundaries being respected, THIS IS WHAT A RELATIONSHIP IS
The mildly disappointed but still respectful βalright good to knowβ from the husband character is fantastic.π and the respect and thoughtfulness on both ends is even better
love that you showed both sides!β€ because...yeahhh we ain't the same π
I laughed so hard at this. The horse sound, the galopping and the "giddy up there cowgirl" ... I couldn't. π But that's exactly the communication you need to have.
I know a lot of women including myself who would love a middle of the night wake up! Itβs not just guys and that dynamic needs to be honored more on social mediaπ
Dude his wife is so attractive, he got it good!
I love this. It doesnβt have to be the same for both. She doesnβt have to be OK with it just because heβs OK with it.
As soon as he said "hey, just so we're on the same page" I immediately said no because I knew what was coming ππ
ππππ my man's the same & I used to be different but he's proven it's worth it on occasion to wake up & toss the blanket π₯ ...thankfully he also knows when to let me sleep, (usually lol) and although it took us a while to get to this point of mutual comfort and pleasure, I'm glad of it. Talking this stuff thru is worth it.π―β€
I love how she's conserned about his place in all of this and is still able to say she wouldn't be okay with that. And credit to him asking if she would have liked that instead of asuming she would be because she brought it up in the first place. β€β€β€
Him: Immediately, yesπ Me: Immediately no ππ
Ha! The horse neigh π΄ made me cackle π
Oh my hubby can 100% wake me up anytime of the night, and he knows it. β€β€β€
This is almost the exact conversation my husband and I had a few years ago π Now, I'll wake him up (the man can and HAS sleept thru a tornado), but as soon as he realizes ehats going on, he's as excited as a kid at xmas πβ€ But hell hath no fury like me if I'm woken up ππ
I'm an immediate yes person, its actually the ONLY way my partner could wake me up before my alarm and not make me furious.
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