@Yusheesan
This "stay at home girlfriend" person is a content creator who is making money off of her videos. This is her job. Any woman who is a "trad" wife or stay at home anything on social media is a monetized content creator. Making these videos is their job. It's all bs.
@emmazimmer4659
as much as i hate capitalism and the toxic, exploitative work culture, financial freedom is so necessary and especially as a young person its way easier to stay on track to be able to provide for yourself. i feel like these influencers are so harmful as they are encouraging young girls to rely on another person. its sad to say but u have to work and be able to provide for yourself because there just are no safety nets. thank you for taalking about this its really important for ppl to be realistic and cautious about their future
@elainealibrandi6364
I'm not sure if people watching know the term "displaced housewives." They were women who stayed home and took care of the house and children, but when their husbands lost their job, died, or divorced them, they found themselves with no marketable skills. A few went back to school or took courses to help them find a job, but most didn't get good enough jobs to support themselves.
@pinkchilldivestmentor
GF isn’t legal wife. BF can drop kick ya out at any time with no legal repercussions
@DimaRakesah
ALSO I had a stay at home boyfriend. It was not a romantic aesthetic, he was just a lazy asshole who didn't want to work or do anything.
@megan7767
Stay at home wife, absolutely. Stay at home girlfriend? I will pass. I will love the luxury of staying at home with a child & focusing on their growth and interacting with them while I engage in other pursuits.
@jaimeerindy4573
Such an interesting discussion! I actually, inadvertently, became a "Stay At Home Girlfriend" this year because I was laid off. I was fortunate to be in a position where my then-boyfriend/now-fiance (but NOT LEGALLY MARRIED nonetheless) was earning enough income for the both of us, but my mental health has been in a low place this year because while I'm "free" to do other things with my time, it does not feel good to rely so heavily on one person. Luckily I have an emergency fund in savings that I could have used if anything were to go wrong, but still the lack of agency really got to me. I want people to be able to do what they love AND make a living, but definitely skeptical about this trend. And you're SO RIGHT, they ARE working and making an income!
@sidehustlevikki1066
Hopefully too many women don’t jump on this bandwagon.
@gene416
I watched a friend of mine get demolished in a financially dependent relationship. She got out after ten years but had to wait until they met common law marriage rules. She’s working and loves her job now but it was so sad to watch her deal with all of that. Financial freedom is CRUCIAL
@mermaidtingzzz
Part of her day was planning out her day in her new planner lol.
@halfforeignamericana5451
I was a stay at home daughter for 4 years. The amount of men who wanted me to move out and live w them was wiiillllddd. Like why would I move out? Not only am I gonna be doing more work around the house, but I also have to provide $exual favors on command?! I have 3 jobs and 3 businesses now. I would rather do this than ever even live w a man. I’m working hard for my peace and the freedom to do what I want when I want
@cymonearmstrong8764
I’ve been in relationships with complete broke boys but they always claimed I was gold digging lol I always got me I hate ppl thinking I owe them
@hellomarisolmo
They are going to realize that this stay at home girlfriend is not what they thought it was
@benbenassi2348
i think anybody with common sense is on to most social media trends, but it's still aesthetically pleasing. I pity whomever gets inspired by their lifestyle fr.
@LoveAndSnapple
How much coffee do these people need to drink a day to do absolutely nothing? It’s a rotation between cappuccinos, lattes, espressos, macchiatos, etc. The amount of caffeine needed to do these light tasks is way too much!!!
@tfa4782
Woow you opened my eyes. They are indeed working as they are filming and earning through our views
@Purplelemon5033
True there making money it’s a lie. My mother was a stay at home mother as we’re all her friends and I can’t say it made them happy, different era. Even then I’d watch her spending all day ironing and polishing pointless inanimate ornaments and polishing the brasses with brasso that took hours and they had no use we had a gas fire😂 and constantly washing and pressing the already clean curtains and scrubbing pans and washing the kitchen floor 5 times a day. House had to be spotless Just in case she got a visitor but they didn’t visit each other they were all cleaning their houses in case they got a visitor.used to just think just why? . The mums would meet at the school gate and compete for who’d had the most miserable day cleaning. Not saying all stay at home mums are like that many home school and can meet for coffee and can fit in more fun stuff, it’s just how I remember it.I choose to work and maybe spend half an hour a day cleaning the house. I don’t own pointless dust gathering ornaments and spend my free time having a life and doing fun stuff with my child, fella and friends. I love the fact that I can pay for this stuff myself and don’t have to ask for money . But each to their own just down to personal circumstances
@GM-wn3sh
Men in general don't treat women very well. They say they want equality etc but when they get married and start having kids it ends up being her doing %80 of the work at home regardless of who makes more money. That's a statistical fact here in North America. Obvioulsy it's important to have your own income or at least a nest egg and skills to fall back on when things don't work out, but I personally don't see the point of becoming a mother (who almost always ends up being the primary parent) if I also have the stress of a 9-5 job- while he just has a 9-5 job and helps out when he happens to be in the mood ,but is generally useless and has the audactity to compalin about not getting his dick touched (most fathers in North America today). Any man can and will disappoint you. I would rather be disappointed by a man by can who can and does provide for me than one who cannot/ does not.
@Aliensanonymous_
Stay at home yet yall have entire tik tok accounts that produce funds for you.
@kaydkaydkayd