My life would have been completely different had i understood this shit when I was in my 20s
When buying a used vehicle, I always go for the car with the most miles and the busted out interior. 🙄
If I am dating a woman I always act as If bodycount doesn't matter for me and as If I am not judging her for her past. Thats the only way you will have the chance of her opening up about it.
Even if they don't reveal it or lie about the number, you can look at their behaviour. Their words may lie but their behaviour will tell on themselves.
Guys this is good advice. I am well into my 70s. I've know so many women that admitted their past to me. I asked if they were through with it, and they said they were. But, even 65 year old women go back into the game once they have security.
I made a career out of explaining this, and you still won't listen That, my male friends, is dealing with American feminists in a nutshell
4:33 There’s a line in the show Mad Men, “Men don’t take the time to end things. They ignore you until you insist on a declaration of hate.”
1:38 I dated a woman for 5 months, committed to her, 2 weeks later we're having drinks with her sister...she blurts out "Remember when I was at that swingers resort?"
Who wants to be 200th in line?! Body count matters. If it doesn't matter to real men, then go get them.
When the times get hard, they will go from entitled to begging really fast.
I think we need a "Poe's second law" that's something like "even if someone is kidding on the Internet, someone will believe it and agree with it anyway, given enough time" I remember a Chive article that was more or less what we call "fat acceptance" now, published in the 2010s. I got caught not knowing the Chive was an alias for satirical site the Onion. But, look where we are now, where even "people working out to lose their own weight" is seen as discriminatory against fat people. We're several steps past that Chive article. So yeah, can we popularize Poe's second law, and just say "maybe this is satire, but I'm going to treat it as real because somebody out there legitimately holds this position, even if this person doesn't"? That's always served me well
Its not that Women do not know, They just do not want to accept that Men takes bodycount in to consideration when in a serious relationship
I do not lie in real life. It pisses most women off, but it turns some women on. Definitely makes me an outcast in most groups.
You should do a segment on how women use "manshaming" on men to get them to do what they want. I think she was using the phrase as a shame. I think she was saying that men who DO care about body count are not man enough. Lots of women out there use the "he's manly/not manly enough" angle to shame men into believing what they want. When's the last time you heard a woman say that someone needs to "man up" and be a stepfather to their children? There are many other usages. It's just manipulation of a man's desire to provide. I could say a lot about this after noticing it.
"well now i have to find a new one" lol. perfectly said.
This process is so organic for most men that we never put much thought into the algorithm, it just comes naturally. Men like women until the veil is lifted, and if there are a bunch of skeletons, you are automatically put in the "see ya!" Box.
Yeah I remember like a tweet that did really well of a woman saying men in the "real world" dont care because she has never heard anyone use this as a reason. I was like, thats because no one ever does and I have let go of 2 for this reason alone and they dont know this was the reason mostly because even if I was to tell them, I dont want them to hide this info to the next person it might be important to.
That is the dumbest tweet I’ve read and I doubt that they have ever actual talked and listened to a man.
We need to bring back shame. They have had a free pass for too long and enabling their behaviour has had unprecedented consequences…
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