Stop breaking your own heart by exaggerating your place in someone else’s life. Don’t be afraid of losing people. Be afraid of losing yourself, when you trying not to lose someone else.
the more we try to control something, the more it ends up controlling us.
“I still love the people I’ve loved, even if I cross the street to avoid them.” -Uma Thurman
That sick feeling in your gut means that your love was true. Its healthy to feel this way. The difficult task is letting go and not letting it consume us.
Be willing to walk alone. Many who started with you won't finish with you
Life is not about winning or gaining, it's about accepting and letting go.
One thing I learnt that has helped me when I’ve lost someone important is to realise that the person you lost didn’t make you feel the love you felt, it was you. You created that love and you made them the centre of it but really it was you.
Separating is hard. But sometimes, loving someone means wanting what's best for them and letting their life take them where they need to be.
When I think about not being able to see someone ever again then I get this feeling in my chest and it’s so strong .
Don’t force situations. Let people do as they please. Only make the effort if it’s returned if not move on in any type of relationship. Only permanent thing in your life is yourself. Everything else is a variable
It's not so much losing the person that hurts, it's the future that you can no longer have together that's worse.
The only thing you're attached to till your death are your own thoughts, soul and the body. Work on them the most.
You can be attached to someone, but not let it consume you. Be ok with being by yourself. It's ok to feel sad when you lose someone you love. But don't let it destroy you.
My favorite saying is “I have yet to meet all the people who love ❤️ me!” Makes me appreciate those who were in my life and look forward to those to come.
Real love is letting people go ❤️ just be grateful for the time together
I lost my best friend 6 months before losing my mother, that's a few years after losing my father. The idea they are now returned brings me some comfort, I appreciate this upload.
Yoda had the best stoic life advice I have ever heard. "Let go of all that you fear to lose."
One thing which has helped me to get over losses and difficult times and to the time still help is a quote by Haruki Murakami. The quote goes like this "Such wounds to the heart will probably never heal. But we cannot simply sit and stare at our wounds forever". Hope this relieves you too.
This is rough for me having left a 6-yr long relationship. You have to sit still with the pain & let it go. Easy to say, but hard to do. Sometimes the hard part is letting go of the pain, because it felt like if you do let go, you’re losing all of the shared memories. It’s sad.
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