How to NOT Fall In Love With Your Friend With Benefit (FWB)

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If you’re able to have sexual relations with someone without any emotional attachments, it means that you’re in control of your emotions.

A woman who falls in love too fast is going to attract the wrong guy. Let me show you the ways that you wouldn't accidentally fall in love with your f*ck buddy.

1. Don't do rebounds. Don't immediately start f****** guys just to feel better about yourself. I understand that it happens a lot.

When you do it, I want you to be conscious about your intentions. Notice the way your mind views your f*** buddy. Notice any desire to validate yourself by having sex with him.

There's nothing wrong with using people to make you feel better. It's only wrong when you’re unconscious about the fact because then it becomes part of your personality.

You’ll feel like the victim. You’ll feel used.

2. Have high intention and low attachment. Any compulsive desire to feel better about yourself by getting a guy will f*** you over in the long run. You must learn to disassociate from those emotions so that they don't take you over.

Learn to observe them and relax when those emotions intensify. They could take over your life and represent your source of self-esteem.

You have to use f*** buddies as a way to have fun, not as a way to find happiness.

Have high intention which means to have fun. Low attachment means that if you can't have fun, then we're done.

3. Create space. Don't see him every single day. The longer the distance between each meeting, the better. Only see him once in a while.

If you see him every day, you guys are going to get used to each other. That's the mistake that many people make. Comfort creates a lot of good emotions.

4. Don't add him on social media. There's no need for that. You guys are f*** buddies.

You don't need the temptation of getting jealous over any of that stuff. Keep him discrete and out of your life.

5. Don't ask him about his relationships. Don’t ask him about who he’s seeing. It's none of your business.

6. Meditate on a daily basis. Allow yourself to be present in the moment. I tried to do this most of the time by feeling my hand and feeling my breath.

Meditation allows you to become your own source of good emotions so that you don't depend on the guy to feel better about yourself.

Here's a link to the article version: mindfulattraction.org/blog/2019/7/27/how-to-not-fa…

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