6 Ways Emotionally Immature People Avoid Accountability -- And Make You Feel Like You're the Problem

Have you ever tried to calmly talk through something that bothered you…
only to walk away wondering if you were the problem?

Emotionally immature people often avoid accountability in subtle but deeply confusing ways—through blame-shifting, jokes that cut deep, silence, and even victimhood.

In this video, we’ll break down 6 sneaky ways emotionally immature people dodge responsibility, and I’ll show you how to protect your peace and stop second-guessing yourself in the aftermath.

You’ll learn:
✅ Why these patterns feel so destabilizing
✅ How to stay grounded when you feel blamed or dismissed
✅ What to say (and not say) to keep your clarity and confidence

If you’ve ever felt like you were too much just for naming what hurt—you’re not alone. Let’s change that.

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ABOUT JULIA:

Julia Kristina, MA, is a speaker, teacher, master therapist and mental wealth coach who helps smart, highly sensitive, heart centred humans get past anxiety, stress, and self-doubt so they can have better: Better relationships, a better life and feel better about themselves.

Through her membership program, The Shift Society, she helps people identify their deep rooted thoughts and beliefs that are keeping them stuck and struggling, and then teaches them how to take charge of their minds and emotions so they can thrive in all areas of their lives.

Julia’s expertise has been featured in Inc magazine, Psych Central, Mind Body Green and numerous other publications, podcasts and television outlets. She has also given talks in front of audiences of hundreds on stages across North America. Videos on her YouTube channel have been watched more than 20 million times and she has built a community of over 400,000 people across social media platforms. When she’s not helping her clients and students increase their emotional intelligence and mental strength, she’s out on some kind of adventure with her three children in Vancouver, Canada.